Women are VERY competitive.

   In fact, one of the best ways to meet women is

to GO OUT with a cute female friend (or more

than one).

   Women are always more interested in a guy who

already has women around him than a guy who

doesn't.

   This is one of the reasons why so many married

guys talk about how much more often they're

approached by women now that they're married...

   Female psychology is VERY interesting.

A GIRL IS INTERESTED IF,

She leers at you,

 laughs loudly,

ogles,

 wets her lips,

 knobs her breasts or hip,

 listens to you very carefully,

 walks proudly,

 waves her hip,

 her style is eye-catching,

 crosses her legs and then puts them back,

hides her face,

 pushes her fingers through her hair,

 enters your private area,

touches herself (smoothes out her stocking or plays with the button of her blouse),

touches the object of her interest,

exaggerates her make-up or perfume,

 dresses up too elegant,

whispers or tries to create an intimate environment some other way,

stares at you too intensively,

 gauges you with her eyes and tries to stay tête-à-tête with you.

If you notice one of the ABOVE mentioned ways of behavior, it means that there’s one thing that she wants from you, closer acquaintance, or even maybe sex.

Be Funny, But not tooooo Funny

Girls like guys who who can easily make them laugh, but if you constantly keep making jokes, sooner or later your going to start to feel like a dork. AND GIRLS DO NOT LIKE THAT!!!!!!!!!!

dont be a coward

If a girl is walking with you dont just look away talk to her about anything

Dont be to much of a friend....

Guys...I know this may sound strange, but you cannot get to friendly with a girl. I say this, and i know from experiance, that if you are way to friendly with her, then that is all she will see you as, as a friend. And we all know thats a sucky place to be, especially if you have feeling for her

dont call her to much

once a night is nice unless she makes it clear she wantsto talk more.MOst girls get uneasy when a guy calls them to much they feal stalked and to crowded.SO make sure what she wants ,and rememebr dont be a stalker cause most girls have guy friends and unless u want to meet them personally dont be a stalker!!!

Dont have stained clothes or greasy hair

Take showers! girls dont like it when you aren't clean. Have clean hair and clothes all the time! and wear deodorant! coming from a girl, it always grosses me out when a guy has stained clothes or smells nasty!

Don't Lie

Be yourself and don't lie. Girls have a tendancy of finding out a lot about you if they realy like you. If they ask for you name dont lie and give them a older age b/c they will find out. If you lied they will start to lose intrest in you; they'll start to think and say well he's not faithfull enough. So just be yourself and don't lie. If they realy like you it wont matter about your age or looks it just be you PERSONALITY.

Don't Mess With Her Head

Just Don't! Alot of times playing head gams will just lead to confusion. She may end up thining "am i a friend or am i more then a friend?" Also, if you really like her, why would you want to cause more confusion then there already is...girls are confused about relationships to begin with--why start more?

Don't Tease

Girls like to be playfull, true. But don't go back to 2nd grade. Smile be tender. I HATE when guys tease me. (from a girl)

Don't Swear

Try not to swear or use nasty / gross language around her. This upsets many girls, even if they don't show it.

Don't Use Insulting Names

DO not call a girl by "Babe" or "Chick". Most of them find it very insulting. Also, do not call her by a physical attribute like "Bubble butt" or "Legs".

You should say her name the way it is. If can try and find a cuttsy version of her name or shorter version of her name.

For example, Rachel could be Rach

Eye contact

When talking to her, always give her eye contact

flirting out girls

whenever initiating a conversation with a girl
be confident
use proper tone
make eye contact
never try to impress her by doing fake things

Flirting with guys

every girl loves a lad who can make them lauagh so when flirting with a girl just remmember to make them laugh and be genuine just be yourself and she will start to like you it is garunteed!!

Hold her

Just put your hands on her hip from behind, Or go one step further and kiss her neck

how to entertain her

play the fool but not too much to bore her. tickle and touch her but dont make her feel uncunfertable.

How to Look

When talking to her, eye contact, yes, it's essencial, but quick glances at other parts of the body (especially those which you think she is confident about) can be VERY nice. Don't be afraid, just don't stare. It's a great way to show you're interested.

how to show you are interested

point your body in her direction to show you are interasted

how to tell if she is interested

Look her in the eye, but not to long, if she keeps the stare, she likes you, or is atleast interested, now look away, and look back at her, if you make eye contact again, hold it a bit longer, and then she is giving you the green to come over and talk to her

if a girl is intrested she will.......

if a girl is intrested she will toch her hair

Kiss her neck, hug her

Come from behind her and hug her and kiss her on the neck!!! girls love that kind of stufff, it makes them fell special

Kissing

If ur nerveous Kissing a girl just go somewhere quiet first of all cause chances are teens (like my gf) havent kissed a guy either, so do it in a cinema or after walking her home, not infornt of her mates especially if ur fridged cause ull look dumb (ps BRUSH UR DAMMED TEETH cause ull get slapped)

Make her feel unique

Give her flowers, a teddy bear, chocolates or something, but be sure you are unique. (ex. instead of a red rose, give her a pink, white, or both)

make her laugh

when you are face to face talking with each other eassily and if you really want to laugh than look at her with your normal fuuny face for 5 to 6 seconds.she will definatly laugh by you.and than try to tell her a joke with an easy and good meaning.

take it easy

if you to do anything from as simple as holding hands to as complex as having sex, don't rush your gal. nobody likes a fast one. when the time is right, you'll know.

Teasing is good

Teasing is the playful way to say "hey I like you" but not actually saying it. Plus it makes you seem like a fun person to be around. Just dont go to far.

wink at her

When ur at the movies or even at school make sure she looks at you then give her a lil wink

Your in control

a good idea is to flirt with two girls.The one you want and another girl, if you flirt with the second girl the one you like will try to out-do her friend

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COCKY + FUNNY

First of all, you have to remember that the formula is Cocky PLUS Funny. Always both.

If you act too cocky, you'll only come off as arrogant and insecure.

If you're just funny, always telling jokes, and making people laugh, you will probably come across as "too goofy."

Here's a cocky statement:

"Her dress makes her look fat."

Here's a Cocky + Funny statement:

"If she doesn't find a dress that fits better, the fashion police are going to send in the SWAT team for her ass."

Get it?

Start with arrogance, then add humor

COCKY AND FUNNY ATTRACTS WOMEN BECAUSE IT QUICKLY AND DIRECTLY SAYS ALL THE RIGHT THINGS ABOUT YOU

Next time you're at the grocery store in the checkout line paying for your groceries, say:

"So how much of this cash do you get to keep?" (as you hand her the money)

She'll probably laugh and say: "None… I wish."

To which you can respond with:

"Oh, I figured you were pocketing 10 or 20%… I assumed you were rich and could support me, but now I'm not interested… I  want a rich girl." (Turn up your nose)

This is a great one. It's always fun to ask a woman if she's rich or famous, then when she says that she's not, tell her that it messed up her chances with you, and that you're not interested anymore.

One of the keys to the Cocky + Funny attitude is to never "crack." If she opens her mouth and gives you the "I can't believe you just said that" look, you need to turn it up a notch…

Most guys will crack and say "Oh, I was just kidding."

DON'T DO THAT! It makes you look like a wussy.

In the example above, if the checker looks at you and gives you the open mouthed "I can't believe you said that" look and says, "Hey! I may not be rich, but I'm nice!", you just look at her and say "Nice isn't good enough, I need RICH AND nice."

Your goal is not to upset a woman, but to get under her skin enough by teasing, busting on her, and acting cocky and funny so that it ignites the magical challenge/attraction mechanism.

And once you can see that you're getting a good response from a woman, GET HER NUMBER. Or get her email. Don't stand around like a dork trying to make her laugh.

In fact, learning how to be Cocky & Funny is one of the FASTEST, EASIEST, and MOST FUN ways you can make women feel ATTRACTION for you.

EXAMPLE

When You see a Big Purse in her hand.., Say her….. is it you keep big to carry a Gun with you or Your Big Sandles. Are you just 4’ without it or Is it just to impress guys.

TEASING

Stop looking for approval from Women.

Lean back, Tease & Let her Impress You.

Tease her About Things She Says, Does or Wears.

TEASING

The official definition of teasing is as follows:

1) playfully vexing (especially by ridicule)

2) arousing sexual desire without intending to satisfy it

So in short, teasing means:

1) Making fun of a girl playfully

2) Arousing her and then pulling back

Sending "mixed signals."

You may also accuse her of hugging you or kissing you a lot. And then you give her a hug or kiss back.

EXAMPLE(1)

Say one of her earlobes is lower than the other PLAYFULLY. (Being PLAYFUL is the key)

Then you look into her eyes and say, "It's all right, you're still pretty."

EXAMPLE(2)

Give her a personal Nickname., eg:- Senorita

EXAMPLE(3)

Example #4: Some women like to touch a guy while they talk.

When a woman touches you on the leg, say in a serious tone,

"May you stop touching my leg?" Then when she seems thrown

off, say "Well, if you want to touch me, I would enjoy it

even more if you would touch me a little bit closer..."

Example #5: Let's say you're cuddling or making out with her,

try to smell her neck, kiss her, etc but then SUDDENLY STOP.

She's going to be all hot and bothered and ask you what's

wrong, etc. She may even put her arms around you to

try to get you back to it. After a few seconds, start making

out with her again...but more fiercely this time. This is a

VERY good way to advance through her boundaries.

Example #6: Be unpredictable. While sitting on a bench on a

date, suddenly pull her up and then give her a hug. Then

you say "I just wanted to hug you." If she asks you why,

say "Cause I felt like it." playfully or "I wanted to see

if you'd feel good to hug." If she asks you if you think

she's good, just say "Well, I think I need a second

try first..." 

PALM READING

First, what I'll usually tell her is that I don't just read anyone's palm. So I make her EARN it by proving to me how much she wants it ;). Then, I eventually "cave in" and take her hand but also tell her that I need a few minutes "feeling it" so that I can get use to her energy. Then I change the topic and talk about something else.

I start touching her hand and if the energy is good, I start massaging her hand and stroking her fingers subtly. This gets her used to my touch. Aww heck, most girls just get horny. And best of all, it's all under the "excuse" of "getting used to her energy" so she doesn't resist!

After a few minutes, I tell her that she has a good energy and I take a look at her palm. Here's basically what you do, although this is a gross simplification. I notice something in the lines of her hand, for example that "she's a trusting woman." Basically, I tell her qualities that I've seen in her from our previous conversation, the qualities that I would also like to reinforce. I tend to I keep my statements vague so that whatever I say she'll perceive as at least somewhat true for her.

The best thing about a vague statement is that it will immediately get her talking and filling in the gaps

On the way back it was easy to sexually stroke her hand in the car because she was already use to my touch (another benefit of palm reading). When we got back I showed her my "collection" of Japanese plants - a series of cactus pictures on my computer! Haha. Anyway, I made her sit on my lap and started stroked her thighs as I teased her about believing me there was actually such a thing as rare, exotic Japanese plants.

Pick Up Girls Using Palm Reading

For example, take palm reading.

You enter a group and start off with some Rapid-Fire Routines - it’s kind of like hitting the girl’s senses with a machine gun, jumping from routine to routine.

However, you can also use a Group Routine that involves the interaction of ALL the girls in the group. Palm reading can be used as a Group Routine for example.

For example, let’s say you’re in a group of three girls, two 7s and a 9. Your goal is to build sufficient social value to the 9 that she becomes attracted to you.

With palm reading, you can read the palm of the first 7, and then the second 7 – while ignoring the 9. Pretty soon, the 9 will want you to read her palm and you can tell her to wait her turn.

With a Group Routine such as palm reading, you’re building social value by involving ALL of the girls into the routine.

Another Group Routine that girls like is The Cube. The Cube is a game you can play to tell a girl about herself. In The Cube, you ask the girl a series of questions, and based on her answers it tells you what she and her relationships are like.

In the game is a cube which represents her, a ladder which represents her friends, and a horse which represents her lover.

There are entire books on how to do the Cube, but really you just need an extremely simplified version of it, nothing fancy or complicated.

First say to the girl, “I have an intuition about you… you know, I can tell you deep insights about you just be asking you three questions.”

When she’s hooked, tell her, “Great, imagine you were driving in the desert and you see a cube.”

First ask her, “How big is the cube?”

Next ask her, “What color is it?”

And next ask her, “Is it something that you can see through or is it solid?”

Now tell her, “Awesome… now, let’s add a ladder. Where is the ladder in relation to the cube?”

Get her answer. Now tell her, “So let’s add one more thing to your picture. Let’s add a horse. What type of horse is it? Where is the horse in relation to everything in your picture?”

Once she answers, tell her, “Wow… interesting… okay. Are you ready to find out what all of this means?”

Have her agree. Then give her the analysis of what it all means.

Tell her, “The cube represents what you think of yourself.” Now give her an analysis. If the cube is large, it means she has a big ego or talkative or the leader of her group (just make something up)… if the cube is small it means she can be shy or that she’s down to earth.

The color of her cube can represent her personality – red and she’s passionate, yellow and she’s happy, blue and she’s profound. If it’s a swirl of colors, it means she’s energetic. Just make it up.

Now tell her about the ladder. The ladder represents her friends. If the ladder is close to the cube or extremely large, it means she holds her friends as very important. If the ladder is flying around in the sky, it means she has trouble keeping friends… if the ladder is on the floor, it means her friends tend to be casual… again, just make the analysis up as you go.

Now tell her about the horse. The horse represents her lover. If the horse is a stallion, it means she wants a strong, powerful lover. If the horse is a mare, she wants a gentle, nurturing lover. If the horse is near the cube, it means her lovers are loyal and committed. Again, just make the analysis up.

The point isn’t to accurately give any predictions. It’s just to pump the girls up with emotions, lead the group, and show the girls that you’re an authority figure - someone who has power over their destiny and can see through them into who they really are.

And by leading the girls’ attention, the hot girl of the group will become attracted to you because she’s seeing how her friends positively respond to you – especially if at first she feels left out of the Group Routine.

PALM READING

Your left hand shows what is happening in your private and personal life. Your true nature and natural gifts show up best in the left hand. It reveals the way you really want to function in life and how you interact with close friends and family.

Your right hand, even if left handed, shows characteristics related mostly to public activities. It shows how you have learned to deal with co-workers, neighbors, and friends. It indicates how you want to be perceived by people outside your private and personal life. Overall, it reveals how you have learned to function in public.

Small angle on left hand-

A smaller left thumb angle than the right thumb angle means that you do not rush into doing things in your private and personal life. With your close friends and family you are cautious and wisely observe the situation before taking action. You are not pushy about getting your way. You are patient and accept help gratefully when and if it is needed.

Big angle on left hand-

Your big left thumb angle reveals that you are eager to jump in and get things done right away with close friends and family. You do things quickly, confidently, and pleasurably because you like to take charge and get the job done, especially among your close friends and family. You are very good at taking action to produce results that you and others can see and appreciate. You are confident, self-reliant, and a "doer". A thumb at a big angle is literally standing up and shouting, "I can do anything!"

Small angle on right hand-

A small thumb angle on right hand reveals that you are cautious and do not rush into doing things out in public or on the job. You take your time and observe what others are doing before you decide to take any action.

Big angle on right hand-

Your big right thumb angle reveals that you are eager to jump in and get things done right away, especially out in public and on the job. You do things quickly, confidently, and pleasurably because you like to take charge and get the job done. You are very good at taking action to produce results that you and others can see and appreciate. You are confident, self-reliant, and a "doer". A thumb at a big angle is literally standing up and shouting, "I can do anything!"

What Long Fingers Reveal

Longer fingers are seeking more contact with, and information from, the outer world. Long fingered people love details, need more data before forming opinions or decisions, and are outer directed. They are interested in the details of stories and events. They like to mentally take ideas and things apart, and put them back together again to better understand them before taking action.

Long fingered people are challenged to take action rapidly so that they do not miss opportunities. They need to guard against being "all talk and no action". Long fingered people may often find short fingered people getting "glassy eyed", yawning, or walking away in the middle of conversations because they may be inundating their shorter fingered friends with too much information!

The chakra concept

The chakra concept states that there are seven major wheel-like energy centers where the life energy resides to keep the body alive. These centers are called "chakras". The word chakra means "wheel" in Sanskrit. The chakras are part of the "etheric body". The etheric body is one of several invisible energy bodies overlaid onto the physical body to provide the life forces to live.

The chakras in the etheric body are concentrated centers for specific types of energy. These energies are the driving power for the physical body. When these energies are disturbed or out of balance, the body suffers with physical problems. Without these energy vortices, the physical body dies. Some individuals with strong powers of concentration can go into an altered state of consciousness and see the chakras as rotating disks of colored energy.

This concept of how a person's energy is revealed in the hands is discussed throughout my book, "It's All In Your Hands" available here.

The "Clubbed thumb" has a short stubby end zone with a disproportionate nail.

The clubbed thumb is a sign of great determination and will power concentrated for rapid results. The clubbed thumb reveals a person who wants results fast. Timing is critical and motivates them to do what is necessary to get things moving as soon as possible. They get impatient when they don't get results quickly.

Since timing is so important in getting results, people with a clubbed thumb focus their creative energy in the short term better than other people. They often are excellent artists, crafts people, or in positions directing and coordinating creative activities.

There is another type thumb that is unusually shaped but is longer and much more bulbous than the club thumb, and it should not be confused with the clubbed thumb. (The clubbed thumb end zone is shorter.) People with this type thumb that is exceptionally large and bulbous have extreme drive to get results and tend to lose their temper when their desired results are not evident. Because of this trait, many palmistry authors in the late 1800's and early 1900's judged both this type thumb and the clubbed thumb in very negative ways. These early authors failed to see the advantage these people have with their strong drive to achieve results.

The serious casino gambler has a number of traits that show up in the hands. It is recognized that there are a few thousand small-time gamblers, scattered throughout the gambling casinos of the world, who are making a reasonable living gambling. They are known as subsistence gamblers. There are no known RICH subsistence gamblers, however. Here are some of the common indicators I found in the hands of serious casino gamblers:

Wide open fingers reveal a person who is open to all possibilities in any situation. They are optimistic about winning the big jackpot even on the slot machines where the odds are very high against winning. Since they are not "tight fisted" with money they generally take the risk and bet all they have. Money passes easily through the hands of these people with wide open fingers. I find these hands like the feel of pulling the handle on the slot machines, and they expect to win big! Successful casino subsistence gamblers seldom have these open fingers on their hands.

The thumb with a long end that naturally bends over backwards reveals a person who is very extravagant and generous with money. In the casino this person is the big tipper as long as his money holds out. Winning is not so important as the pleasure of "throwing money around". The casino games of Black Jack, Poker, and Baccarat seem especially comfortable to these "high rollers".

Long fingers indicate that the person enjoys using the mind and needs a lot of facts and details before making decisions. This is the "card counter" in the casino card games and the "system player" at the roulette wheel. They understand the rules and know the jargon that goes with the games and enjoy making them work to win. This person would not be comfortable at the slot machine or roulette wheel relying strictly on chance to hit the jackpot. The slot machines are for short fingered people. Long fingered people want to have the cold mathematical probability of winning figured out in their head before they put their money on the table. The long fingered person plays roulette with a system and enjoys the challenge of beating the house odds. For long fingered gamblers this mental processing is what makes the games fun. Most casino subsistence gamblers have long fingers.

A long curvy Head Line ending in the Mound of Moon is a great gift for the casino gambler. The long line indicates strong mental processes and an active mind. The curve downward reveals a gift for accessing deep intuitive information around them and from others. A person with this deep strong line has "an accurate feeling" about which cards each of the other players at the poker table are holding. They often have periods of "luck" and don't know why but just keep playing their hunches and winning using their extraordinary "intuition". The casino operators know this gift is present in some people and that is one reason the waitresses are constantly handing them drinks to destroy that edge.

Another gift some successful casino gamblers have is a little finger that is straight, long, and leaning out to the side away from the ring finger. The leaning out reveals a "free thinker" not bound by conformity and the restrictive values of others. The bright lights, drinks, and apparent sexiness of casino staff are easily and enjoyably accepted. The long little finger indicates a quick and sharp mind, always one step ahead of other people. A side point of interest: A big heavy gold ring on a man's Mercury finger reveals money is used for a feeling of power in place of sexual energy.

A long little finger indicates a quick sharp mind. If the end is long then this person may very well be a subsistence gambler living successfully off their winnings. This rare type little finger reveals great natural talent to understand and deal correctly with the subtle energies at the gambling table games. They see and understand the subtle unconscious movements of other players at the casino table and know how they will play their cards. They can spot a bluff instantly.

The gambler with straight cylindrical fingers (no knobby knuckle joints) plays on hope and trusts that somehow they will win if they keep on playing long enough.

The gambler with knobby knuckle joints (especially if long fingered) is constantly trying to analyze every move and use their intellect to beat the odds and win.

Any indicators for psychic abilities are a great advantage. Some of these indicators are rare but show up frequently on subsistence gambler's hands.

The perfect Woman is a lie

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The perfect Woman is a lie

The "perfect partner" is a lie which is fed by love songs, soap operas, fairy tales and lonely mothers. The "bodily perfect" partner is a lie by Hollywood and the fashion industry. Just check my website OnMouseOver Shock to see some examples.

Don't believe "voices" in your head telling you "There must be someone just for me somewhere" or "I have to find the perfect partner" or "I believe there is something as perfect love". Those "voices" are traps that make your life harder.

Let me suggest to you what is much better than an "imaginary" perfect partner: A real partner who is good. Yes, just good and real and voluntarily loving you. Let him have his flaws and he lets you have yours. The bigger the common ground the better, of course, but trying to form him into a some kind of god/goddess is unrealistic. Thus instead of for a perfect partner, strive for one who is good enough.

BE PRACTICAL (MAKE BEST USE OF LIFE)

Day-dreaming of being together with Ben or Pamela Anderson might stop you to meet a woman who is different than your celebrity but good for you.

They differ from the picture they present on TV. And very often they had some plastic surgery done to seduce guys like you.

OK, here's my tip: Instead of wanting to be together with your favourite celebrity try to become a celebrity yourself. This gives you way more chances to meet them

Become perfect yourself

A good way to find a really good partner is becoming one oneself first. Instead of spending time to find the perfect match you should spend time to become a great husband yourself. Once you are a man who will be a great husband finding a matching wife becomes much easier. It's like looking for the perfect book for years instead of learning how to read first.

Myth #1  Opposites attract?

Search for a partner who is similar and not opposite. Do not try a dating strategy by being as differing as possible. Don't disagree bluntly with your talking partner during a date. If you agree then show it.

Do Not Search for an Opposite Partner

Myth #2  Love on the first Sight?

It IS possible that you have 2 people who fell in love suddenly although they actually don't fit. Just Same Mood of 2 Persons at the same time.

Overcome shyness

(1) Practice

Ask 20 women in a row "Where is the next Coca Cola factory?" or "What time is it?". Just random girls who pass by. After a little practice you can even start to say "Hello" to beautiful women on the street.

(2) Make rejection your Goal

Since a woman sitting alone in a bar is asked probably 10 times per night for a date she can (and will) turn you down easily (without further thought)

Make it your goal to be turned down at least 10 times per night. Laugh at rejections. Treat them as sport.

You WILL get rejected in about 90%-95% of the cases. But it's not because of YOU it's simply because how things work

You could even "start a night" with the prettiest girls around. Get rejected. Try with less pretty girls. And so on.

(3) Just talk as if to a boy

just start a small talk for the sake of a small talk

And by the way: Women love to flirt in a non-sexual way. Just smalltalkin'.

(4) Practice with a no-go partner

You can approach a girl with whom you would never start a dating usually. Just to train how to talk to a woman.

(5) Number Game

It's a number's game. The more girls you ask the more you can date.

(6) What Others Will Think

Don't give a damn what others think of you.

Moreover if you are friendly and well behaving then there is no reason why she should scare you off. She will be friendly, too.

Stop thinking about having a girl-friend and get one!

HOW TO TELL HER TO STRIP

Let's say you just finished kissing her neck, and you are

somewhere near the top of her breasts, but she still

has her shirt on.

            Well what you can do is this. Instead of trying

to just take her shirt off, which is just plain

annoying to her, you can start to kiss very softly

all around her breasts (right over her shirt).

            WHY on earth would you want to kiss her breasts

on top of her shirt? Because she will begin to realize

that once she takes off her shirt and bra, you are

going to continue pleasuring her bare breasts... and

it's going to feel a LOT better than you kissing them

on top of her shirt.

            So the next time you are making out with a

girl, start kissing her on top of her shirt all around

her breasts (but not TOO much). Then, while you are

kissing her there... getting her shirt off will be a

snap.

Examples of open-ended questions:

"What do you think about the movie?"

"Who was your favorite actor?"

"What do you like about the food?"

Some sample phrases you can use to show your interest:

"Wow..."

"How interesting"

"Yes"

"Go on"

"Tell me more..."

"I totally understand."

"No way!"

"What happened after?"

TECHNIQUE #3: Being Empathetic

One last important technique is to be empathetic to women. By being empathetic, you're showing you UNDERSTAND how she is feeling. When a woman feels you understand her, a strong bond is created between you two.

When you're talking to a girl, pay attention to what she is saying. Nod slowly in approval when you agree.

NEVER criticize her. Stay away from comments that begins with "you should" and "you shouldn't".

   The Art of

HYPNOTISM

                                 (Anantu & Venkat)                                             

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Hare Hare Perh Dekho, Chalte Jaao, Chalte Jaao

Hare Patte Dekho., Ye kya Hara Hara Tota Dekho, Dekho., Dekho

Tote Ki Laal Laal Chonch, Laal Laal Chonch, Muri Hui Chonch

Muri Hui Chonch Dekho Tote ki , Chonch me Laal Phal Hai…, Dekho

Dekho……., Dekho., Tota Phal Khaa Raha Hai, Khata hi jaa Raha Hai

Dekho…….., Dekho………., Dekho

Yeh Kya , Thanda Thanda Pani Dekho., Thanda , Thanda ., Thanda..,, Thanda

Are ye Patta Dekho, Patte ke Upar Dekho., Dekho Kuchh Hil Raha Hai.,

Hilta Hi Jaa Raha Hai., Yeh HAI Suraj ka Ghoda., SURAJ KA GHODA…..

Haan , SURAJ KA GHODA., Iski Lambi Lambi Tange Dekho., Iska Hara Hara Sharir Dekho., Ye Hil Raha Hai., Kya Kuchh keh raha hai

Ise Dhyan se Dekho., Iska Chehra Dekho., Isko pura Dekho., Iska Chehra Dekho., Iski Lambi Lambi Tange Dekho.,

Dekho., Dekho DHYAN SE DEKHO.,

Jungle me perh Dekho………, Dekho…… ….., Dekho.,

Perh Ki Tehni Dekho,……………………………………………………..

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Alpha Male – (Have Self Mastery)

Don’t Focus on Girls (i.e., Others) as these are Uncontrollable Factors.

Focus on Controllable Factor i.e., You (Have Self Mastery)

Step 1:- Approaching Women

Step 2:- Rapport / Connection

Step 3:- Dating (i.e., Deepening Rapport) i.e., spending time together to  know each other)

Step 4:- Seduction (i.e., Deepening Rapport) i.e., introducing feelings of Sexual arousal into rapport

Step 5:- Sex

What is Rapport

Rapport is a Two-way street i.e., the feeling of Sameness. i.e., what you feel , they feel & vice versa. Rapport is broken when one person stops feeling the same way as other person.

Remember, the natural inclination of someone who is in rapport is to STAY in rapport. Because if you’ve established a deep rapport with the woman, and you begin to experience the feelings of sexual arousal… then SHE will begin to experience feelings of sexual arousal as well!

That is the very nature of Rapport.

Now you are working on the Girl & not on yourself. i.e., you are working on someone else

Seduction à Sex

And because you are in rapport, the girl you’re with chooses to follow your lead!

This is also the phase where you can ramp up the physical interaction. Things like touching, groping, kissing, petting, and heavy petting come into play – all escalating to the final phase of the method à Sex

Remember:- Dating, Seduction & Sex are all extensions of Rapport. The more Knowledge, Confidence & Experience you gain with Rapport, the easier it becomes to move through steps three, four & five.

LISTEN TECHNIQUE

LISTEN LISTEN  (& Ask Questions)

Next time you talk to a new girl you meet, keep the focus on her and just let her talk about herself. There. You don't have to worry about what to say next now, do you?Simply lead her with Questions. Let her know you're very intrigued by her andwould like to discover more things about her.

      Women LOVE to talk about themselves. Everybody enjoys attention, after all. So if you really LISTEN to her talk, she will appreciate it: especially since most men don't listen all that well.

      Go out and try it!

Coffee Shop à Walk Together

30 Min. in Coffee Shop (u came as Individuals & focussed on each other)

20-25 Min. Walk (u move like a Couple & focus shifted)

Ten DON’Ts on a First Date

1)      Don't talk about politics or religion. She may not share the same view.

2)      Don't check out ANY other females. Leave that waitress alone! FOCUS YOUR ATTENTION ON YOUR GIRL!

3)      Don't talk about your past relationships. In fact, don't talk about yourself too much at all. Remember the golden       role: keep the focus on HER!

4)      Don't make any offensive jokes. Humor is good, until feelings get hurt. (Then its hilarious?just kidding!) Seriously, be FUNNY - just don't be offensive or rude.

5)      Don't talk about your sexy kinks. Unless you know she's into the same stuff. (Like unless she tells you first and it happens to be the same thing you like?)

6)      Don't get into ANY sort of argument with her. Seriously,      it's going to ruin the whole evening.

7)      Don't kiss her ass.

8)      Don't tell her you love her. Don't even tell her you like her!

9)      Don't be late on the first date. Don't show up an hour early and then wait for her either. BE ON TIME.

10)    Don't act like this is your first date in your entire life. Try to play it cool!

Don't talk about the following topics on your first date:

1.  Do you have any mental, financial, legal, or divorce problems? If you do, keep it to yourself.  Don't share these personal problems with your date.

2.  Don't talk about your bad luck with dating women.  A real turn off would be to make a statement such as, "All the women I date turn out to be bitches."

3.  Don't discuss any previous relationships and express bitterness towards relationships that didn't work out.

4.  Don't jump the gun and start talking about future dates together.  The only purpose of the first date is to get to know each other and not to plan a future together.  If you start talking about doing things together so soon, she's going to feel pressured and perhaps intimidated.

Don't ever assume that just because she agreed to go on a first date with you that it will lead to a quick relationship.  Take things slow and don't rush her into a relationship.  Establish a strong friendship first and romance will follow.

Ten DO’s on a First Date

1)      Do groom yourself properly before you go out. Dress nice!

2)      Do flirt with her and tease her like there is no tomorrow during the date.

3)      Do buy some fresh condoms AND clean up your room, house or apartment before the date. Just in case!

4)      Do give her a big hug as soon as you meet her. Why? A little physical touching right off the bat can be a good start!

5)      Do advance through her boundaries and limits subtly. Holding her hand? See if you can get a kiss next, and so on.

6)      Do have a stimulating conversation with her.

7)      Do act like a gentlemen and open doors for her, etc.

8)      Do compliment her. (Not too much though!)

9)      Do only go to a place where you can afford to order the most expensive item on the manual.

10)    Do relax and have fun!

Women Don’t See (AGE/BALD/SHORT/FAT/UGLY)

They look for Guys who make them FEEL GOOD. They want a man they can feel safe with, who can provide for them, make them feel pretty or special – whatever

Key Difference between Men & Women:– Men are Logical & Women are Emotional.

Men make Decisions based on what they think. Women make Decisions based on how they feel.

TELEPHONE SKILLS

Another key element that must be learned to be successful in dating is your telephone skills.  What I want to focus on today is knowing when to call a woman once you get her phone number.

First, when you get a woman's number, never call the next day.  Thisis a rookie mistake that a lot of guys make.  It makes you lookneedy when you do this.  Instead, wait a few days before calling.

For example, if you get her number on Sunday, call her Wednesday orThursday.  If you get her number on Monday, call her on Thursday.If you get her number of Tuesday, call her on Thursday or Sunday.If you get her number of Thursday or Friday, call her on Sunday orMonday.  If you get her number on Saturday, call her on Tuesday.Easy enough.

Also, never make the first phone call on a weekend.  It makes it seem that you have nothing going on and you look needy.

Next, so what to talk about?

You can always talk about your weekend that you had.  But don't talk on the phone too long for the first time.  Remember that your goal is to get a date with her.  So schedule one.  A casual one such as lunch, coffee, or a ball game.

Finally, do not call her the next day after the first date.  Wait at least 2 days before you call her again.

Applying these simple rules to your dating life will help you do several things...

First, you won't come off as needy and not having anything to do.

Second, you maintain some mystery about yourself by not showing all of your cards at once.

Often times, a guy will make a forward comment to a woman, and then retreat with a "I'm just kidding," or "I didn't mean that," type comment.

       This is the wrong thing to do.

Whatever you do, don't stare at a woman. This is impolite and nobody likes to be stared at. Just look at her long enough to make it quite clear that you see her and then immediately look away. What you are saying with your eyes when you look at her this way is, "I know you are there and I would not dream of invading your privacy." Just keep looking at her off and on until you establish some meaningful eye contact and exchange smiles.

Women are Traditional

i.e. THEY WANT MEN TO ASK THEM OUT!

You just CAN’T show a girl your cards early on. It’s death to attraction.

Like a cat, if you try and pet her, you’ll never catch up to her. But act chill around cats – even ignore them – and you’ll have them crawling all over you.

Dear Dating gurus,

I want to date hot young women, but always

fail. I'm 35, and would love to sleep with

girls I see on campus (I live in a college

town). I am clueless, what should I do?

Signed, "Clueless"

Ah, the younger woman...the much sought-after babe. But if you are 35+, women in their

early 20s would never want you, right? Wrong!

First, you must realize that many younger

women are more attracted to older men than

they are to those drones their own age. They

want someone who is sensitive, mature, and

experienced. In case you didn't notice,

that's you, bucko!

So you want to find those 20-year olds who

want an older man.

Don't blow it by trying to be "hip" like the

guys her age. You'll just look like an idiot

with your too-big pants and your hat on

backwards.

At the same time, don't draw attention to her

comparative youth. The worst is to lecture

her about how you were when you were her age,

and what you have learned. If women your age

don't care, why should she?

Create experiences that she normally wouldn't

have-a date off-campus -- an interesting

restaurant (don't spend too much -- more on

this in an upcoming newsletter!), or a drive

in the country. Avoiding being with her in

places her peers will likely be - it will be

uncomfortable for her and you.

Ron: To get sex with younger women, you must

convince yourself (and thus, her) that your

age is a benefit.

Some girls will reject you because of your

age, but others will sleep with you because

of it, too. So muster up the courage to ask

out that beautiful 20-year-old. She may well

be the girl for you.

Important tip

Being in too much of a hurry scares women away.

Being in too much of a hurry makes women RESIST… it weirds them out.

If being in too much of a hurry hurts you, then what’s the obvious solution?

Duh.

SLOW DOWN.

This is a good start, by the way. And I recommend it.

Lean back. Don’t move too fast. Don’t communicate that you’re needy. Don’t get overly excited if she gives you a “positive signal”. In short, CHILL OUT.

The “Magic Key” To
A Woman’s Arousal…
Anticipation

The way to take this idea of “slowing down”, and multiply its effectiveness… is to add a simple twist to it.

This twist is to actually STOP once in awhile… and GO BACKWARDS a step.

In fact, I call this technique “Two Steps Forward, One Step Back”.

And here’s why it works:

For a woman, arousal (or being “turned on”) is all about ANTICIPATION.

Men get turned on instantly… but women usually take longer. And they ENJOY the process of getting turned on more and more over time.

If you know this simple fact… and you know how to create MENTAL ANTICIPATION… you will know the secret of getting any woman aroused sexually.

Here’s how to do it…

Next time you’re with a woman, tell yourself that you’re going to STOP at every “base”, and take a step BACK.

Let’s say you’ve kissed her for the first time.

STOP.

Lean back.

Smile at her.

Start talking again.

And don’t touch her for several minutes.

Now, why’s that?

Because she’s going to be thinking to herself “Why did he stop?” and “Is there something wrong” and “Is he going to kiss me again?”.

And the more she thinks and wonders, the more TURNED ON she’s going to get.

When you do start kissing again, put your arms around her… but DON’T TOUCH any of her “private” areas.

Touch her shoulders. Touch her arms. Pull her close. But DON’T TOUCH the “R Rated” zones.

And then… you guessed it…

STOP.

Lean back.

Smile at her again.

Lay close to her with your arm around her… very still.

During the time you were kissing her and touching her, she will be thinking “Why isn’t he trying to touch me all over?” and “I’d better be ready to stop him”.

But you didn’t touch her in any of those places. And she didn’t get to “stop you”.

And now that you’ve stopped, she’s thinking even more… and getting even MORE aroused.

Are you learning something?

Good.

Now go and use this technique, and see for yourself how powerful a simple idea like this one can be…

Now, I just shared a very simple… but very POWERFUL technique.

WOMEN’s DARKEST FANTASY

Women love it when their men are in control. It's their

secret fantasy. So don't act like a little wimp going out with

his mother when you go out with a woman, okay?

     When you walk into a restaurant, choose where to seat.

Just say "Let's sit over there" and take her hand. If she makes a

suggestion about where to sit, say something like "No. Let's sit

over there. It seems like a nice spot." and just take her there.

     I am not asking you to be a control freak. I just want you to start acting more assertive. Most guys are too weak in this area.

     Women love to "surrender completely" to a guy. So make their  darkest fantasy come true, okay?

IDEA # 13

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from her childhood.

IDEA # 28

Organize a professionalphoto shoot to obtain a portrait of the two of you as a couple. Frame the picture & put it somewhere prominent. Remember to make sure you give your partner plenty of notice so that she can get ready.

IDEA # 39

Collect Tickets of Places visited by you & put it in a frame

How to Approach Her

ASK HER A QUESTION !

Keep asking her questions until you find something you can talk

to her about.

Just remember to have a good time doing it.

If you're uneasy, nervous, or uptight, its going to affect the girl you're talking to in a negative way. So learn to control your anxiety!

Women "test" guys all the time

1)        Do not express anger and annoyance while on a date.

   Always remain calm, even when you total your car, okay?

2) Speak up and learn to say NO. Women "test" guys all the time –

     even at a subconscious level.

3)     Look at people when you talk to them. Stare at her eyes,

        not at her boobs!

4)     Ask for help if you need it. The real man realizes he's not all-

        powerful and isn't afraid of asking for help.

5)     Be in charge. You're taking the woman out, not the other way  

        round!

        Start acting more assertive, and the women will

        notice a difference in you almost immediately.

Be Her Lover & NOT Friend

Going the "friends first" route to sedu.cing women is

completely ineffective and a total waste of time.

You must understand that a woman's lover can never be a

converted "buddy" -  it has to be someone who stirred up her

deepest instincts to mate and copulate with actions that

spoke to her identity as a woman right from the very start. 

Only a few people in her life will ever be considered in this

special way.

Move a Step Every Day

We suggest you start relentlessly managing your mental state around women.

First, you should start listing to yourself, every day, the things that happened that day that were successes with girls.

Second, you should find a way to make EVERY interaction with a woman a success in your own mind --which won't feel natural at first,

but it will become so, don't let that stop you.

Put another way: LET YOURSELF FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOUR SUCCESSES,no matter how small they might seem to you right now.

Third, you need to get over the "what will people think" concern--you do that by being outrageous with women (ie flirting, etc,) and making every interaction a win in  your own mind that you feel good about.

This will start breaking the negative cycle you are caught in. Don't dwell in rejections, change  your focus and move on.

Women Like Cleanliness

Women like cleanliness, and single women will OFTEN judge you on how clean you are on a first date. If you make her feel dirty, it's going to leave a bad, bad impression. It's going to show her you're a disorganized slob - or even worse, that you don't care about her feelings enough to come CLEAN on a date.

Don’t Be Predictable

That is the reason Why Women Don’t like Nice Guys. It is Because they are Predictable.

Her heart is seeking adventure. Now, this doesn’t mean that you have to go cliff diving or bungee jumping on a first date.

There just is no spark, if you are Predictable.

By extension, if you’ve got a girl laughing, chances are she didn’t expect what just happened.

You get the idea. Pay attention to what she likes, but file it away. Don’t immediately try and fulfill her desires - But go ahead and fulfill them on YOUR schedule, at unexpected moments.

Few things are sexier than a man who doesn’t lose it at the sight of an exposed breast. If you can control yourself and DELAY satisfaction until you’re ready to give it over, the ANTICIPATION becomes more powerful than ACT ALONE usually is – making the act all the more powerful when it comes.

Yes, I’m still talking about sex. But I’m talking about all the rest of it too. DELAY. Really. Trust me. DELAY.

“How to Convince Single Women That They Should be With You”

You must convince a girl that she would be lucky to be with you. You may do this to a great extent just by properly presenting yourself with your image.

Examples: Dress as well or better than her. Be knowledgeable about the movie, the dinner, the wine, politics, or whatever.

Let your image speak for you. By keeping the conversation aimed at her, you say a lot  about yourself.

Another way to convince a girl that she will be lucky to be with you is to play on her inadequacies.But DON’T come off as being negative.

Examples: If it comes up in the conversation that she's never been to

Hawaii, accent the fact with, "Really, you've never been there? You

should go sometime."

If she mentions that she does not like her job, say, "It's hard to work in those conditions. You should get out of a situation that makes you unhappy."

 If she mentions a health problem, ask a few questions about it to accent the fact that she is not perfect.

 If she exposes insecurity, ask why she lets that bother her.

How to Take Her Out

1) Call her up, greet her, ask what's up as normal, and then go on

with, "My [xxx] class just got cancelled, so I've got a few hours

free. Where are you right now?" Note the wording - "Where are you

right now?", NOT "Are you free?" If you get where she is, you can

come to judgements about how free she is and where you two could

potentially go. After she lets you know where she's at, go ahead

with, "Cool, I can come by there and we can hang for a bit." If she

asks what you're doing, either come up with a plan, or let her know

something along the lines of: "The company is more important than

the event - we'll hang, chat, have a good time... we can grab

coffee or food or whatever."

This creates a sense of urgency. Note you should be in

communication at least in the last two weeks before you call her

abruptly... this works best if she perceives you as having a busy

schedule.

Be Spontaneous & Not Predictable

Don’t ask her to dinner. If possible, don’t even ask her in advance. A spontaneous meeting at a coffee shop or going shopping in an eclectic neighborhood with built-in conversation is great.

Your call should sound something like this: “What are you doing right now? I’m about to hit Java Joe’s, you should come and entertain me.” “I’m shopping for some clothes, and I’d like a woman’s opinion. What are you doing now?”

Make sure you’re going somewhere fun. The kind of place with strange knick-knacks all around so you’re conversation can naturally flow from your surroundings. Why do extra work when you can let the atmosphere help you?

AVOID PAYMENT SITUATIONS

DON’T PAY. Especially with a woman you’ve just met. Paying says all the wrong things.

It says “I’m not interesting, so I’m bribing you to spend time with me.”

It says “I want to prove I’m good mate material by showing off my financial success.”

Shopping? You’re not going to buy her something, are you? That smells of bribery worse than dinner, and you’ll just make her uneasy.

Avoid putting yourself in situations where the issue of payment comes up, and you’ll avoid this whole can of worms.

While on a Date

You: I had this weird dream last night.

She: Really? Like what?

You: I was running down this alley and this vicious dog was chasing

me.  I ran into a dead end and fell to the ground.  You know what

happened?

She: No. What?

You: He bit me right here on my neck (point to a spot on your neck).

Go ahead feel it.

When she goes to touch your neck, quickly turn your head and snap at

her finger!!!

Don't bite it, but just before she touches your neck, take a playful

bite at it.

The girl will jump and laugh her butt off!  I never had a date that

didn't.

It will definitely lighten up your date and she will perceive you as

a fun guy -- which may be the most important quality you can show a

new girl.

How to get Physical with her

I've talked to a lot of guys who are VERY successful with women about this particular phenomenon, and they all say similar things.

   It seems that whenever a woman is going to get "physical" quickly, they have to rationalize it "out loud" first.

   Sometimes a woman will say "I'm not like this" or something similar to slow things down and try to explain away what's happening.

   Don't let it bother you.

   Of course, if a woman says, "stop" or she

actually tries to stop you from kissing her (or

anything else), then you need to STOP immediately.

I'm not suggesting at all that you don't respect a

woman's wishes.

   But, you also need to understand that just

because a woman is SAYING that "she doesn't

usually do things like this", that it doesn't mean

she doesn't WANT to.

Attract that ATTRACTIVE Girl

It seems to me that when an attractive woman who is used to being the one in control meets a guy who is super confident, Cocky & Funny, unpredictable, and NOT EASILY CONTROLLED, it freaks her out.

   Sometimes she literally doesn't know what to

do, and she doesn't know how to act.

she just doesn't know how to deal with you.

   This is a great place to be, and don't let it bother you when it happens.

   And now, to answer your question... of how to handle this situation.

   First of all, don't start acting TOO DIFFERENTLY.

   If you start acting all nice and lovey, you'll come across in a way that will be confusing... and it will probably make her run.

   If you want this to turn into something more, then you need to be cool and calm about EVERYTHING that happens.

   If she seems nervous, just relax and make a joke about it.

   With attractive women, it's always a good idea

to "lean back" and give her space.

Practise makes Perfect

Rehearse the line many times.  Don't only rehearse what you are

saying, but HOW you are saying it -- that's extremely important.

Once you are in the situation and you see a girl that you'd like to

approach, if you feel confident and comfortable about your opening

line, you will feel more confident about approaching her.  Just give

her direct eye contact, and deliver your opening line exactly the

way you rehearsed it -- voice tone, body language, and everything.

Remember, practice makes perfect.

How to Ask her Out

Never ASK a girl that you are interested in for ANYTHING that has

ANYTHING to do with her time or attention.  No, what you do is you

go up to her and tell her that you'd like to spend time with her at

(some place) at (some time), and that she should come along.  If the

two of you spend enough alone time together, it will be a lot easier

for things to fall in place naturally over time instead of trying to

change the relationship overnight.

How to Impress a Girl

If your aim is to impress a girl or win her approval,

 you will never impress her.

Strange, I know.  But the best way to impress a girl is to treat her

as if YOU are the one that needs to be impressed rather than her.

You need to treat her as if she's trying to get YOUR approval

instead of YOU trying to get HERS.